Development of technology brought us many interesting things and it made our relationships much closer. These days you can constantly be in contact with your loved one, wherever you are, however maintaining a passionate relationship can be though especially if you are living far apart from each other. Sexting is the new phenomenon created to maintain passion between partners, no matter where they are or what are they doing. However, people often do not know how to act and what to write while they are sexting. Here are a few ideas that you can use right away that will light a fire of passion in your relationship.
There are a few things you should know about sexting before you get to sending messages. It is a way of foreplay, it should be used as a hint of what will come later in the day, week or month, but you should not do it with someone you never met before. Do it with your partner, when you are trusting each other that the content of the messages won’t be shared with other people. Sexting is better if you are sending words instead of pictures because there are so many things that could go wrong with sending naked pictures. And last but not the least, do not save the texts under any circumstances.
- Preview sexting as I already mentioned is used as hints of what will come later on. It is something like letting your lover know what will happen when you two meet. If you do not want to be so dirty, or if you are doing this the first time, you can start by sending something like ‘I’ve got a surprise waiting for you tonight’ or ‘I will be waiting for you with no clothes on tonight’. Sexting is kind of a dirty talk in electronic form so you can use any dirty variation of the sentences above.
- Request Sexts are, just like their name says, texts in which you can describe exactly what do you want and how do you want it. You can start with the basic sentences such as ‘I want you’ and then you can expand your story. Describe exactly which part of your body needs kisses or similar.
- Fantasizing Sexts. If you saw something in a movie or a music video and you like it, you can send text to your partner describing exactly what your fantasy is and what you would like to try with him/her. It should sound something like this ‘It turns me on thinking about you tying me up’.
- Teasing texts are bound to light the fire in your partner’s mind. ‘I just got out of the shower, and I’m thinking about you’ as well as dirtier variations of this sentence can do a pretty good job while sexting. Of course you could send a nude but only if you think it is a good idea and that there is no way your partner will betray your trust.